no significant change

the last brain scan shows that the tumour continues to grow... the chemo  may have slowed it but not so we can tell. 

This is as expected: two available drugs, neither has much chance of doing anything useful.

So my choice now is, drug free... just wait and see.

So far -- as predicted -- the tumour makes me slow and tired.

I can walk say 100m, no worries. Especially when the 100m is with Deb, and leads to coffee and cake :-)

But the "tired" makes it very difficult to get started. I spend a lot of each day resting, dozing, sleeping.

it's annoying to be awake in the middle of the night and be too tired to write, or even read.

this morning, for example, I slept for an hour before I could be bothered starting this post.

on the other hand: being tired is pretty trivial.

sometimes I have a quick flash of a thought, a few months and I won't be alive to even think of doing... whatever it is.

Funny, though

... I usually think in terms of, Deb won't do this without me. I've had a good life -- specially with Deb. There's nothing left in any "bucket list". except, perhaps... more of the same :-)

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stupid doctor

deb phones the cancer doc to confirm that we will not be turning up or further treatments which have very very small chance of doing anything worthwhile.

I think deb is upset by it. getting practical on my impending death.

poor Deb:-(

for me, death is still a very vague concept.

I'm confident that it will be slow and painless

but I now sleep, or doze, all day. and and any walking at all makes me puff and pant. I can still keep going... slowly

today I make it out for coffee and cake :-)

... but the 

effortinvolved is 

very annoying

the cancer doc tells deb that I will not be paralysed legs down.

as far as I know no-one ever suggested that.

the cancer doc is an idiot.

I suspect that she is not interested in cancer. she spent a lot of time discusing how my dex dosage, or the IV could be slowing me down

when the brain surgeon blamed cancer getting into my brain stem the cancer doc effectively denied the possibility.

I suspect that she knows nothing about brain cancer.

 it also  seems that she does *not* enjoy talking with patients about their cancer.

right... I do *not* like her.

deb says, she kept you (me) alive for seven years.

no. I stayed alive while the doc ticked boxes in a list of what to do next.

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strange times

the last few weeks have been quite odd. 

things happened which made a bit more, or less,  sense later.

I'll brain dump some high and low points:

from memory,  so accuracy is not guaranteed.

I spent some months having bevacizumad by IV once every three weeks. 

after the first dose the tumour shrank by about 20%

I think of that shrinkage as due to to power of positive thinking.

after that, the tumour continued to grow despite weekly IV.

no useful effect, so we cancelled further IV.

later,  deb tells me that we have also cancelled starting with a second drug, lomustine.

I know a lot about lomustine but cannot remember ever being told. I suspect that I was asleep when it was being discussed.

I did not hear any discussion of lomustine.

I sent an email telling the cancer doc that I am deaf.

it is possible that the ten pages that seem to be a blank drug schedule are the doc's attempt to give info to a deaf patient.

it worked well. I was able to yo to Wikipedia to read up on the drugs. and ask an expert whose voice I can hear.

the two drugs have similar effects:

very small chance that tumour growth may be slowed

small chance of a few months of extra life. some chance of nasty side-effects.

every day I feel weaker and wearier. this is just death by cancer. I don't notice any other side-effects. I'm sure I will live those few extra months, eventually :-)

so the drugs are having no  effects

life goes on and so do I, so far

I don't  regret getting off the drugs.

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weak, weary, sad

being weak and weary is an expected part of my dying.

possibly exaggerated because I'm expecting it.

no worries, I've been quite cheerful as I doze for most of the last few days.

and today we enjoy an outing to a cafe.

later and I'm reading a book which includes several pointless deaths.when I realise the deaths make me miserable.

I put the book aside and immediately feel better.

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more meeting memory

deb reminds me, I did go in with clear questions... which the doc answered

is this, getting slower and weaker, what will kill me?  yes

are the possible head aches a lead in to something worse?

no...just another aspect of the same slow and steady decline.

phew!

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treatment

we meet with the cancer doc, to discuss the latest scan results.

and, I guess, to look at future treatment.

Why "I guess"?

I was handed ten typed pages about bevacizumab and lomustine. Handed to me by an unfamiliar woman. no introduction, no explanation.

 a bit later, the doc may have said that the strange woman is the doc's offsider.

what I do learn is that I can closely watch the doc, listen carefully to every word she says -- and have no idea what she is talking about. I'm not sure if it's because I don't like her or if it's why I don't like her.

Anyway, talking with Deb and reading google, those big words are cancer-treatment drugs.

those ten pages are supposedly a treatment schedule -- with no dates, no details. nor any date for a scan to check progress. so I guess it's just ten pages to be binned.

One thing is clear, from the meeting, my tumour has grown

i've been on bev... treatment for a few months. 

in the first month the tumour shrank. Since then it has grown... bigger? smaller? than the original? No idea.

today (the day of the meeting, was an IV treatment of bev...we went on to that. What about the next? in another three weeks?

and should I try the ther drug, lot... capsules.?

according to Google... neither will do much : a low chance of doing nothing much at all

... and the nothing much would be just a few months extra life.

oh, and most of the ten pages is side effects. all of which are, if you get this, go immediately to emergency at your nearest hospital.

so a few extra months of really lousy quality of life.

our immediate response was to leave. and probably stop treatment.

the very first shrinkage of the tumour, I'll put that down to a clean life and positive thinking.

now, several days later, I'm trying to document the value of that meeting.

printed info: nothing I can do for myself. nothing from the doc to say what to do.

google follow up, not promising.

cancer doc value: bugger all.

it's easy to say, no more treatment.

the decision does feel a bit uncomfortable.

I may as well depend on more positive thinking.

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decision

we have a brief discussion on my treatment decision. 

we are both happy happy?  satisfied,at least  

I will stop all treatment. 

neither chemo drug will stop tumour growth.

both come with side effects,  one sounds unpleasant. 

if I get noticeably better or worse, we'll reconsider. 

meanwhile, give my brain a chance to see what it can do unaided. 

===

an alarm goes off.  a reminder that it's time to take a grandson to his after school swimming -- my favourite day of the week :-)

I'm already so slow, and need the walker,  I stay home. 

disappointing.

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