But what about?

I wake suddenly at 2 am and realise... I have missed an entire area of planning (for the short future)

What about Deb?

Practical matters are fine. Deb, and the boys, are more than capable.

What of deb's mood?

I tell her to be upset but not too worried, I won't be worried.

But she can't use the line, now he's someone else's problem, I've already used that on a recent widow.

What does feel... just right... is:

Deb wakes up one morning, I don't.

So Deb goes out and, too late for me to hear

... plays some loud Meatloaf and/or Queen.

Then we decide that deb will do

... whatever she likes, I won't be worried.

So that is that, sorted :-)

half blind. half deaf. dying of cancer.
so what?
notdotdeaddotyet.blogspot.com :-)

Dr Nick Lethbridge
Consulting Dexitroboper