I really think that I need to adjust my attitude.
I do a lot of planning for the future -- but try to not let the future affect the present.
Especially, If I can not affect the future, I don't worry about it.
The present is for living. The future may -- or may not -- happen.
It's sort of "mindfulness". It's the way I am... the way I have been since before mindfulness became fashionable.
It keeps me happy -- in blissful ignorance -- most of the time.
But not always.
I still get annoyed. Angry... bad-tempered.
Worst of all: no matter what *my* attitude -- Deb still worries.
So: not good enough.
Only trouble is... I'm not sure what attitude -- by me -- would stop Deb from worrying.
That's something to think about.
Perhaps something simple? Wear a big red nose? Yeeessss :-)
Meanwhile: A friend of Deb's told Deb that anaesthetic hangs round in the tissues for a very long time. Hence my all-the-time tiredness. (Which -- I think -- is gradually improving.)
I can't guarantee the anaesthetic idea.
But Deb likes it.
So, that's good :-)
Dr Nick Lethbridge / Consulting Dexitroboper
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===One joy scatters a hundred griefs" ... Chinese proverb
Dying for you to read my blog, at https://notdotdeaddotyet.blogspot.com/ :-)
Keep planning for the future mate.plenty of it to come.
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